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Tuesday 20 May 2014

Self - defense

Gang raped Malaysian student to return home from Indonesia


KUALA LUMPUR: The Malaysian student from Padjadjaran University  in Bandung believed to have been gang raped is expected to return home with her family today.

Indonesian newsportal detik.com said that the girl, who was allegedly abducted and raped by three men last Saturday, will receive further treatment in Malaysia.

The police reportedly said that her family had arrived in Indonesia as soon as they were informed of the incident and will be return to Malaysia on Tuesday morning.

"She (victim) will return to Malaysia today," Cimahi police chief Erwin Kurniawan told detik.com on Tuesday.

The same portal had earlier reported that the girl was left by the suspects in an unconscious state at a car park some 40 kilometres from where she was abducted.

The portal had confirmed the identity of the student with Padjadjaran University, which had reportedly informed the matter to authorities here in Malaysia.

The police had earlier said that the girl had reported the matter stating that the three men had raped her.

"They took turns. The only one who did not do it was the driver,"  Erwin Kurniawan told detik.com.

The report also stated that the student was still in trauma and was treated at the Hasan Sadikin Hospital in Bandung.

According to police, initial investigations found that the student was said to have gone out to withdraw money from an ATM machine not far from her rented house in the Jatinangor campus.

The student was reportedly called upon by an unknown male, who covered her mouth and pulled her into a car.

The police are now awaiting the medical report by the doctors in Hasan Sadikin Hospital.


It must be devastated news for the victim's family as well....their lovely girl came all the way abroad from malaysia to study.. Unfortunately the thing that

she never expected to be in her life actually happend in reality...





Ladies!!! always prepare for the worst,k... Please be aware of ur surroundings, in this case...just trust urself!!!! trust me even the guy that u actually put ur trust on can become potential rapist *no offense to other guys, but the real thing happened in my society.True Story*


Try to apply it in ur daily life as precaution 


The 2012 Delhi gang rape case involved a rape and fatal assault that occurred on 16 December 2012 in Munirka, a neighbourhood in South Delhi, when a 23-year-old female physiotherapy intern was beaten and gang raped in a private bus in which she was travelling with a male friend. There were six others in the bus, including the driver, all of whom raped the woman and beat her friend. The woman died from her injuries thirteen days later while undergoing emergency treatment in Singapore........
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2012_Delhi_gang_rape_case *may her soul rest in peace*

Ladies, just involved yourself with any self-defense
*besides keeping ur body aware,alert and good reflex, it also teach u how to stay in fit and control ur anger, we only used it for self - defense and protect our loved ones not for bullies or attacking others for fun* 



                                
Just some basic self defense






Gang raped by 4 guys =.='''''



http://nurinjazlin.blogspot.co.uk/ --- Alfatihah for her 

Nurin was reported missing while on her way to the night market near her house in Section 1, Wangsa Maju on Aug 20, 2007. Her naked body was found stuffed in a sports bag and left in the stairwell of a shoplot in Petaling Jaya a month later. Her private was stuffed with cucumber and brinjal....



                                   

Karate or Taekwondo??? (if u love kicking, go for taekwondo but if u want something closed range combat go for karate)


I chose karate-do due to my otaku thingy towards japanese culture


Indeed, Ran Mouri Character inspired me a lot XD


Silat is a collective word for indigenous martial arts from a geo-cultural area of Southeast Asia encompassing most of the Nusantara, the Malay Archipelago and the entirety of the Malay Peninsula. Originally developed in what are now Indonesia, peninsular Malaysia, south Thailand, and Singapore, it is also traditionally practiced in Brunei, Vietnam and the southern Philippines. 





Several types of silat in Malaysia
  • Tok Panglima Garang
  • Tok Panglima Hitam
  • Harimau Berantai ( Chained Tiger) - I did learn it. Honestly...very difficult for me to handle, very fast movement....u need to know how to control your breath, because u not only goin to damage ur opponent externally but internally as well.....*sound scary but only those with high level can do that*







AS A STUDENT WHAT SHOULD I DO WHEN I BECOME A VICTIM?

A. If Someone Tries to Rape You:

There is no foolproof way to prevent rape. And different people have different opinions on how to cope with a rape attempt. Below are some suggestions on what can be done. But they are only suggestions and whether or not you should try them depends on the circumstances. 

• Try to talk your way out. One trick is to tell the potential rapist that you have venereal disease or any other dangerous and infections disease.
• Pretend to go along with him, and ask to be taken to a more suitable place, then look for a chance to run away. The idea is also to delay him, because the more you delay the more your chances are of being spotted by someone and rescued.
• Scream only if you are within earshot of someone else because screaming may lead to more violence from the rapist. And scream ‘fire’ not ‘rape’. Experts believe that more people are likely to answer the former call than the latter (CAP,1988).


B. If You are Raped:

According to advice from the Polices and Doctors (CAP, 1988), if you are raped, please follow the below advices to take your farther actions:

• DO NOT WASH UP OR CHANGE CLOTHES.
A girl’s first instinct after she is raped is to cleanse her self. But it is VERY IMPORTANT that she gets a medical examination before she washes her self. Seminal and blood stains, mud, debris, foreign fibre and hair on her face, body and clothes all constitute important corroborative evidence.

• GO FOR A MEDICAL EXAMINATION.
 Go for a medical examination at the Accident & Emergency Department of a government hospital immediately. Doctors will examine you in a private room to gather evidence of the rape. You will first be provided with forms requestion your approval for the medical examination, and that the information be used for police investigation. The doctor may examine your genital areas and your clothes. While you may feel uncomfortable, it is very important to gather evidence right away.

• REPORT TO THE POLICE IMMEDIATELY.
The hospital staff will notify the police. You may make a police report at the hospital. You could also choose to go to the police station first, whereby a policewoman should accompany you to the hospital after your report is lodged. You can still make a police report later, but after 72 hours, a rape is considered a ‘cold case’ i.e., the evidence may no longer be there.

• ASK FOR HELP.
The victim should ask a supportive person- a family member or close friend- to go with her to the police station. The presence of someone she trusts will help her go through the embarrassing and often traumatic act of reporting to the police and the subsequent medical examination. The police and doctor will want a full statement of what actually took place (CAP, 1988). Contacting a women’s NGO or a counseling service is important, even if you decide not to go to the police. Talking can help you deal with feeling of fear, anxiety and worthlessness that victims of sexual assault often experience (WCC, 2007). 




I'm a survivor... True Story...

RIGHTS OF RAPE SURVIVORS


As a school students, if you become a rape survivors, don’t feel you are miserable you have the rights in effecting regal reforms that will eradicate violence against women girls.


Ø The right to treated with dignity and respect and sensitivity.
Ø To be considered a survivor of rape when any unwanted act of sex is forced on her through any type of coercion, violent or otherwise.
Ø To be considered a survivors of rape regardless of the assailant’s relationship to the survivor ( such being survivor’s spouse)
Ø To be treated in a manner which empowers her and enables her to determine her own needs and how best to meet them.
Ø To be treated with as much credibility as survivors of any other crime.
Ø To be treated in a manner wtich empowers her and enables her to determine her own needs and how best to meet them.
Ø To use any means necessary to protect herselt against any assailant and not be criminally prosecuted for harming the assailant during or immediately after the rape, or in the process of preventing rape.
Ø To receive information on her rights as a survivor, information on the supportive services available, legal procedures and options open to her.
Ø The right to appropriate medical,legal and counseling support.
Ø To receive medical and mental health treatment and to participate in legal procedures only after giving her informed consent.
Ø To receive prompt and effective police action to arrest and prosecute the assailand/s.
Ø To have the possible collection of evidence for court, especially by the police and hospital personnel.
Ø To receive prompt medical and mental health services wheather or not the rape is reportedto the police, and at no cost.
Ø To have legal procedures which treat her with dignity and protect her rights.
Ø To be asked only those questions that are relevant to a court case or for medical treatment.
Ø To have her name and identity kept out of the media.
Ø To obtain compensation from the assailant/s and or the State.
Ø To be given free legal advice on the possibility of pursuing a civil suit to recover damages against her assailant.
Ø To have access to a secure living situation, other measures which will help to allay fears of future assault and feel safe again.




Four wealthy Russians cheered a gang rape like 'professional footballers celebrating the scoring of a goal' a judge said yesterday as he jailed them for a total of 36 years.Oleg Ivanov and Gregory Andreev Melnikov, both 23, Norayr Davtyan, 22, and Armen Simonyan, 19, filmed the sickening attack on an 18-year-old Malaysian fellow student at their £30,000 a year boarding school using an iPhone.



Another child missing again =.='''' even in kindergarten is not secured place anymore....HomeSchool would be better i guess


Furore over inaction against kindergarten where rape

 occurred

http://news.asiaone.com/News/AsiaOne+News/Malaysia/Story/A1Story20110412-273101.html

Parliament, statutory rape and children lying?


How many of you would believe that a seven-year-old child could whip up a fantasy of having been raped when she was aged four? And that too after watching pornography?


* Malaysia is now pedophile paradise * =.=''''''''


Please take care of ur kids!!!!!

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